What
do you want to want to be when you grow up?
This
question was one that we all heard throughout our younger years. For most, the
answer was something generic. A firefighter, a police officer or maybe a pilot.
For
Jack and Brendan Riley, the answer was more specific: Division I hockey player.
The
Riley family is well known throughout the college hockey world. Jack and
Brendan's grandfather John (Jack) Riley, played hockey at Dartmouth and coached
at Army West Point for 36 years. Of his five children, one son played at
Harvard, two at Boston College, one at Brown and his daughter played at St.
Lawrence.
After
he stopped coaching at Army, his son, Rob, took over, and was eventually joined
by his brother — Jack and Brendan's father, Brian — who assisted. In 2004,
Brian took over as head coach, and now enters his 13th season and the 67th
consecutive year with a Riley as the Black Knights bench boss.
Jack
and Brendan are two of Brian's three children, with daughter Dani being the
middle child. As a Division I hockey head coach, it is easy to understand how
his children all grew up to be athletes. Jack plays hockey at Mercyhurst
University, where he is a redshirt junior. Dani played four years of lacrosse
at Merrimack, while Brendan is joining his brother as a freshman for the Lakers
this season.
'On skates at an
early age'
Raising
children while being a Division I hockey coach could make it difficult to
balance time between home and work. However, it also allows for an opportunity
to expose one's children to the game at a young age. Brian Riley shared his
memories of how his sons got into hockey with Pucks and Recreation.
"It's
kind of funny, Jack was on skates when he was one, just kind of walking around
the rink on his skates," he said. "They were both on skates at an
early age, but with me being a coach and being up here at the rink and them
coming up to see me at the office and watch games.
"It's
just a sport that they really fell in love with, and being around the rink as
much as they were really drew them to the sport."
Jack
and Brendan both have numerous memories of being around their dad at work
growing up. This lifestyle naturally influenced their interest in hockey,
though whether they would each sustain that passion all the way to the NCAA
level was not always certain at the start.
"Growing
up, and I'm sure my dad would tell you the same thing, everyone didn't know if
I was actually going to be a hockey player," Brendan admitted to P&R.
"He would always tell me 'You know, Brendan, you don't have to play hockey
if you don't want.' But being around the program and being around such a good
hockey mind helped me learn the game."
Perhaps
those initial doubts came as a result of one of Brendan's early hockey
experiences.
"It's
a pretty funny story," he said, "I was playing mini-mites or
something. I was playing a game, and I got my first penalty. I think I
two-handed a guy who took the puck from me and I was crying in the box, so
that's pretty much the first thing I remember: Sobbing."
That
notwithstanding, the two brothers would develop dreams of growing up to play
Division I college hockey, but achieving that is much easier said than done.
They both had to work hard, go to prep school and play in juniors to eventually
live the dream.
"It
was at an early age that I saw that he (Jack) really did have good hockey
sense," Brian said, "and that's something that you can't teach as you
get older. That gave him a solid foundation and he worked on the other parts of
his game, just getting bigger and stronger.
"He
also has an unbelievable trait: He loves to play but he wants to win, and you
can see that when he's out on the ice.
"Brendan,
on the other hand, is a different player than Jack. Good size, skates well, and
really was kind of a late bloomer. He went away Kimball Union in New Hampshire
prep school for two years and had success there. I think watching him over
those two years, his skating ability and knowing that he's getting bigger that
there's a good chance that he would have an opportunity to play Division I
college hockey."
Off to Mercyhurst
Their
play in prep school and juniors got the brothers onto the recruiting radar.
When it came time for Jack to decide where to go, familiarity played a big
role. He shared the factors in his college decision with P&R.
"I
grew up watching the (Atlantic Hockey) league play, so I had seen Mercyhurst
multiple times," Jack said. "They've always been one of the good
teams in the league; they are at the top of the league every year. When it came
time to choose colleges, the assistant coach (at the time) Bobby Ferraris
called me and he said they were interested, so I came here to visit and I just
fell in love with the campus.
"I
grew up knowing Coach (Rick) Gotkin, too, and he's always been a good guy and a
good coach in the league, so when it came to choose I felt like Mercyhurst
would be a good spot."
Jack
is now entering his fourth year at Mercyhurst. However, unlike the previous
three, a new chapter begins, as he will no longer be the only Riley on campus.
Besides his new teammate in Brendan, his sister Dani is joining the Laker
community as a graduate assistant lacrosse coach.
It
may seem somewhat improbable for three children from the east side of New York
State to end up at a small school in Erie, Pa. However, the development did not
really surprise Brian.
"They
are a close-knit bunch, and they like the feel of a small school," he
said. "Jack has really enjoyed his experience, so that kind of drew
Brendan there. When Dani was looking at grad school, she had the idea of 'Wow,
maybe I can go to Mercyhurst and be there with Jack and Brendan.' It's really
kind of neat how it worked out."
Not
only will the three be attending the same school, but this season will be the
first time Jack and Brendan are on the same team in competitive hockey. With
both being forwards, it is also possible that they could see time on the same
line.
"We've
played in summer leagues together, like men's leagues and stuff like
that," said Jack. "I always joke and tell people that it's going to
be hard not to yell at him on the ice because normally I yell at him to do this
and do that because he's my brother, so it's easy.
"I
think it would be fun playing with him. Just from the aspect that he's my
brother and that I've never been able to play with him. I know what type of
player he is, we actually kind of fit together. He's got the speed and the body
type I wish I had. I definitely think it would be a cool experience, and if it
were ever to happen against my dad's team that would be even more crazy."
Brendan
had similar thoughts in terms of the idea of playing with Jack. Not only would
it be an opportunity to play with his brother, but as a freshman playing with
an established upperclassman, it would be a valuable learning experience as he
looks to establish himself. He also envisioned being on the receiving end of
some passes from his brother.
"I'm
sure he'd set me up for a few backdoor tap-ins," he expressed.
'Army's basically
been my favorite team'
Playing
against the team they grew up rooting for (Army) is certainly a unique aspect
of playing at an Atlantic Hockey rival. To go along with that, playing against
Army of course means playing against a team coached by their father.
Jack
has experienced this already in his career. He certainly rose to the occasion
during one of the meetings with his father's team. On Dec. 6, 2014 Jack scored
two goals and added two assists en route to a 6-3 victory over the Black
Knights in West Point.
But
for Brendan, that first encounter will come on Jan. 13, in the rink he
practically grew up in.
"I
always tell everyone that it's probably the hardest thing I've ever done,"
he said. "It's super difficult. I've grown up and Army's basically been my
favorite team in any sport. We grew up basically going to all of my dad's
games, even the away games.
"So
when I made the decision to go to Mercyhurst, I kind of thought in the back of
my mind, 'I could still root for Army,' just not when we play against
them."
Despite
the admitted difficulty of playing against Army, Jack has clearly shown the
ability to succeed. When asked if his brother had any advice to offer about
playing against Army, Brendan joked, "I know they normally try to take a
couple runs at him, so probably keep my head up."
Their
dad certainly knows what it is like to return home to play against one's
father. All of the brothers in Brian's generation paid the same visits to West
Point when the elder Jack — who passed away in February at the age of 95 — was
coaching the opposition; a homecoming of sorts.
"I
always knew how excited we were to come back to play against my dad,"
Brian reflected. "More just because of being able to play at West Point,
our home. We wanted to make our dad proud of hopefully playing well. I'm sure
the boys are going through the same thing. The opportunity to come back and
play here at West Point in front of family and friends, play in the rink where
they grew up, is probably really exciting for them."
It
is definitely a special moment when Mercyhurst and Army face off for all
members of the Riley family. As the coach of the opposing team, however, Brian
has to balance the role of being a coach and a parent. While he has to do his
job during the course of the game, he allows himself to appreciate the moments
in brief spurts before and after.
"At
the start of the game when you see him introduced and he comes out to the blue
line, you're just really proud as a parent," he said. "As a coach,
the game is going on and it's pretty fast and I'm not saying that I don't
notice when he's out there, I do, but it's really after the game where I can
watch video and see how he played. It is really exciting, and I just can't
imagine what it will be like to have both of them out there.
"It's
always been a special moment for me after the game to be able to go through the
line and give Jack a big hug afterwards, and now to be able to give them both a
hug afterwards will be really, really special and something that I'll always
cherish."
Jack
can appreciate that balance as well. He realizes that his dad is doing his job
and doing what he can to help his team win. At the same time, he knows how much
his father hopes for the best for him.
"The
first time I remember just looking up and I was almost in awe seeing him on the
other bench because I knew deep down he was rooting for me but at the same time
he can't root for the team," Jack said. "He always jokes and says 'I
hope my son scores a hat trick, but we win the game 4-3.'”
More coaches to
come?
Playing
hockey has been a big part of the Riley's lives. For many members of the
family, after their playing careers ended, they were able to continue to their
heavy hockey involvement through coaching.
Brian
was able to grow up learning from Jack, who besides his lengthy NCAA tenure
coached Team USA to its first Olympic gold medal in 1960.
"I
think what I learned from my dad is that the most important thing is to care
for your players more as people than hockey players," Brian said.
"When you do that you create this relationship and develop this bond with
your players that it's really about kind of being part of a family. When you
have that bond as a coach with your players, they will do anything for
you."
This
desire and passion for coaching is something that appears to have been passed
on to his children. His daughter has already taken her first opportunity as a
coach. Along with her, both of his sons have expressed interest in coaching
someday.
Given
the knowledge base they have developed and growing up in a family full of
hockey, Brian thinks the job would bode well for Jack and Brendan.
"I'm
sure if that's what they do they'll both be very good coaches, much better than
me," he said.
Jack
has already succeeded in achieving the goal of becoming a Division I college
hockey player, which he remembers setting in grade school. In the future, he
can see himself putting all of his knowledge of the game to the test.
"Besides
being a Division I college hockey player, being a coach has been my other
goal," he said. The only thing I really know is hockey.
"I
know the ins and outs of coaching from my uncles, my dad and my grandfather. I
just want to be a coach somewhere, so wherever the opportunity is hopefully I
can achieve that goal."
Being
just a freshman, Brendan likely has a number of years until he needs to decide
on the next phase of his hockey career. However, much like his older siblings,
he acknowledged that coaching may be a possibility in his future.
"Like
people say it's not only what you know, it's who you know," he said.
"So we're pretty fortunate in that respect that we've got a few
connections."
- Andrew Wisneski